Someone, next time, remind me to never go way out and help a friend…because invariably you get bitten, burnt and all of that shit! You do! Trust me!
I helped a friend recently, to such lengths, that I don’t think I’ve ever done before…and what happens? She turns around and accuses me of not doing enough! WTF!
And now it turns out that she’s keeping her distance…sucks doesn’t it? Aren’t the good guys supposed to triumph at the end? Doesn’t the good guy pull through?
Its not like she’s some new acquaintance…I’ve known her for years on end, and we are pretty close…but I think its quite petty to think that this friendship got ruined over such a sordid thing as a boy! Really! How boring! But that’s how it is…for her atleast…
She makes small talk with me, at which I’m enraged…but not in the mood to confront, so I turn monosyllabic. She sends me emails telling me what she thought I should have done…again, not feeling confrontational, so I don’t reply…
Honestly, I’m upset, a wee bit hurt too…but as the man keeps saying…I never learn!
Its true, its happened before.
errrm… crap cant figure out if ur a girl or guy…. nvm.. anyways.. nobody likes a good guy anymore mate….. just ignore her… thts all u can do…
sometimes things to take weird turns….
I’ve been in similar situations…
All I can say is that you would’ve done all with good intentions.. you did your part… so just be happy about it.. and leave it as it is..eventually at some point the others will realise..:)
tc
Awww! There’s nothing more you can do. So long as you’re comfortable in the knowledge that you have done the best you can, that’s all that can be! Hope it gets better though!
This woman sounds like one of those cases to me… trying for some dude, fails in many ways or something and blames it on the supportive male friend. I’m assuming you’re male for some reason.
My advice, stop playing that role.